8 Fun Self-Care Ideas To Try
Self-care… I know some people think it’s an overused, gimmicky term. But the reality is, we often neglect to take better care of ourselves when it should be high on our to-do list. So today, I wanted to share these 8 fun self-care ideas and help you get more comfortable with prioritizing your needs.
As a mom, I know it can be difficult to make time for yourself while managing and taking care of everything and everyone else.
We sometimes forget that balance in life is essential to our overall well-being.
Think about self-care as the equivalent of putting on your oxygen mask in an airplane before helping anyone else. It’s necessary to do this so that you can then help your child.
The same goes for self-care. If you are depleted and overwhelmed, it’ll impact the level of care you can provide to others and the level of energy you’ll do it with.
Before we begin with the 8 fun self-care ideas, there are two things that you first need to get comfortable with that will help ensure you prioritize self-care.
These 2 Points Are Essential To Practice Self-Care
1. Schedule or Block Time in a Calendar.
If you don’t block time in for self-care, the less likely you are to follow through because of all the other competing demands you have.
It’s important to schedule it just as you would a medical appointment or meeting.
It doesn’t have to be a whole day (although once in a while, a full day of self-care is awesome); book in 10-15 minutes, 1 hour or a few. It depends on what you’re planning to do and what works best for you.
2. Learn to Say, “No.”
If you want to take better care of yourself, you also need to get comfortable with politely declining other commitments and attending events or groups you join.
You can read more about the power of saying no in this article.
When you’re overwhelmed by everything you have going on and your daily to-do list, it’s a good time to rethink and start eliminating things that are draining or not a priority.
8 Fun Self-Care Ideas
1. Have Regular Dates With Yourself.
Dates on your own are a great way to enjoy things that you love doing and make you feel joyful.
Sometimes, it’s hard to find people who want to do what you enjoy, so why not make time to do some of those things yourself?
Maybe it’s going to your favourite local cafe for a treat, the bookstore, visiting botanical gardens, catching a flick on your own. Whatever makes your heart happy.❤️
This is one of my favourite fun self-care ideas!
I love going on my own for a pedicure or massage. I feel well-rested afterward. Then, I’ll treat myself to lunch or head to my favourite bakery.
You’ll also feel refreshed and be in a better mood when you do spend time with family or friends.
2. Go on Local Road Trips.
Why not explore some beautiful local areas and learn some history? This is something you can do by yourself or with your partner.
Self-care doesn’t necessarily mean you have to do it alone, as long as it’s relaxing and without stress.
We’ve been taking local road trips, and it’s time that I don’t have to worry about what to make for lunch, chores or keeping the kids busy.
Try going on guided tours in conservation areas or old castles or visiting public gardens. It’s a peaceful time to connect with nature and learn some new facts about local sites.
Just search for local spots on Google, and you’ll be surprised how many new ideas you’ll find.
3. Do Some Daily Light Exercises.
We all know how important it is to be physically active for both our physical and mental health, but it can be a challenge to get to the gym, go for a long run or do other time-consuming activities.
Instead, do some daily simple light exercises for 15-20 minutes at home: stair climbing, burpees, lunges, squats, light weights, or watch a yoga or pilates video.
If you can invest in a Peloton, treadmill or a home gym, these can also be great motivators to get you going.
Exercise gives you more energy and instantly makes you feel good as it releases “endorphins,” which trigger positive feelings in the body.
4. Create an Energetic Playlist.
Music is food for the soul. I’m a firm believer in that. 🎶
As a music lover, I know how powerful and uplifting music can be when I’m feeling down or stressed.
You can try retro ’80s or Coldplay to get you dancing, movie soundtracks, and disco is always fun. Whatever it is that puts you in a great mood, and you can dance to.
You can use AppleMusic or Spotify to build your own playlist or type in what genre of music you are looking for, and they have amazing curated playlists.
5. Get Creative.
Using your creative energy is a great way to unwind and lift your spirits.
Here are some ideas:
- You can try adult colouring books (which I love and find very relaxing). You can find some free printable pages here and here.
- Start a DIY project you’ve been putting off.
- Make a homemade candle.
- Create a photo wall in your home.
- Make some homemade cards for upcoming holidays or birthdays.
- Learn to paint with videos on YouTube.
- Try origami.
- Put together a complex puzzle.
- Go on nature walks and take pictures of things you come across.☀️🌸
6. Have Daily Tea Time to Wind Down.
There is something so soothing and relaxing about sipping your favourite tea.
You can read something uplifting or listen to calming music. If it’s a nice day, sit outside and enjoy the fresh air.
Fun tradition at my house: My girls and I have a “British tea time” some weekends, where the three of us will put on our best British accents and have our favourite tea and a sweet treat.
7. Enjoy a Mini Pamper Session.
We can all use more relaxation and pampering time so have a mini spa session at home. 🧖♀️
You can light candles or diffuse some essential oils in your bathroom and put on some calming music such as spa or nature soundtracks.
Some ideas for your pamper session:
- Soaking in warm water with a bath bomb.
- Putting on a face mask.
- Have your partner give you a massage.
- Doing some deep breathing.
- Listen to guided meditation and imagery. You can try Calm and Headspace, and for a faith-based option, there is Abide.
- Deep condition your hair with a hair mask.
- Soak your feet in bath salts.
- Treat yourself to some calming tea while curled up on a chair with a throw blanket.
Here is a list of the best self-care essentials for having a spa day at home.
8. Create a List to Celebrate Your Achievements-Big or Small.
Positive self-affirmations and acknowledging things you have achieved are great ways to celebrate yourself, your strengths and help boost your confidence.
Adulting is exhausting and no easy task, let’s be kinder to ourselves and acknowledge all the hard work we do that often goes unnoticed.
This is also a great way to end your day on a positive note.
It can be as simple as celebrating that delicious dinner you made, the compliment your boss gave you for a job well done, getting something on your to-do list completed, your child saying I love you and so forth.
I created this free printable achievement list for you to download and print as many as you want. Just click on the links below the image.
When I say super-power on the list, that can be your generosity, how compassionate you are, how you advocate, volunteer, or your creative abilities. We all have superpowers that bless those around us!
Related article: Self-Care Sundays: 60 Ultimate Ideas to Relax & Recharge
I love these! I’d add reading a just-for-fun book, too – I used to read multiple novels a week as a kid, but when you grow up and life gets busier it just doesn’t happen anymore. It definitely feels like self care when I make the time, and I find that the more I read, the more creative I am!
xo Danai @ Living, Learning, Eating
http://living-learning-eating.blogspot.com
Yes, reading just for fun is a great one and something I love to do for quiet self-care time. Thanks for sharing Danai, hope you are having a great week!
These are all such great ideas! I have felt so burned out lately and with all the changes with Covid, it hasn’t helped… some things are less busy now, but other things are even busier! A day to myself sounds so wonderful or even a daily tea time. I’ve been wanting to get back into Yoga, too. I need to pick one or two of these. 🙂
Carrie
curlycraftymom.com
Sorry to hear you’ve been feeling burnt out, it’s a hectic time of year, and that’s why it’s important we stop and check-in with ourselves too. I hope you can make time for some of these or whatever makes you feel more refreshed. Thanks for stopping by, Carrie:)
I was wondering if exercising was on this list! I always count that as self care for myself. Even though it feels like work sometimes, lol..after a good workout I always feel so much better!
Shauna
http://www.lipglossandlace.net
That’s so true for me too, I procrastinate with working out, but I feel so much better after I do! Thanks for sharing, and I hope you have a great week, Shauna:)
These are amazing ideas! I love the idea writhing down little goals of the day, so motivating x
Laura
https://www.beautywithlala.com/
Thanks so much, and yes, writing it down is a great way to give yourself some TLC:)
Love all of these ideas! My art journal is my way to be creative and my afternoon tea time is always a treat. Have a wonderful holiday week Martha!
https://www.kathrineeldridge.com
Thanks so much, Kathrine! I love your art journaling, hope you have a wonderful holiday week too:)
These are great ideas for logging some quality self-care! We all can’t really get enough of it this year. 🙂
-Ashley
Le Stylo Rouge
So true Ashley, with the year we have had, self-care is essential and something we all need more of! I hope you have a great week.
I completely agree, if you don’t write it down, it’s not going to happen! These are great ideas! Mini pampering sessions are the best! I don’t have a Peloton bike but I do have the app and there are so many great workouts on there!
Jill – Doused in Pink
Thanks so much, Jill. Yes writing things down is an important one. That’s a great idea about getting the Peloton app for the workouts!
These are all wonderful suggestions! It’s a great idea to write down your daily achievements. That way we can be more aware of our progress.
xoxo
Lovely
http://www.mynameislovely.com
Thanks so much, Lovely! I hope you were able to download the printable then. We need to celebrate ourselves so much more then we do:)
These are all great self care tips! I absolutely love #2 – learning to say no. This was such a hurdle for me before I became a mama. I wanted to be everybody’s best friend but it was a game changer when I finally stood up for myself. Working out has also helped give me more energy and be just a better person all around. I don’t know where I would be if I never came across fitness! I hope your week is going great so far and I know it’s a few days early but wanted to wish you a very Merry Christmas!
Maureen | http://www.littlemisscasual.com
I agree with you, there is power in saying no, and it is essential for proper self-care. I’m glad you were able to stand up for yourself and create that healthy boundary! Thanks for sharing this, Maureen, and wishing you a very Merry Christmas too:)
These are wonderful ideas! I’ve been trying so hard to make time for exercise because it really helps my stress level! Having regular dates with yourself is wonderful too! Thanks for sharing these!
Thanks, Laura! I’ve also been pushing myself to exercise because it always helps me feel better physically and emotionally. Dates with yourself are great. I hope you are having a wonderful holiday:)
These are all great tips! I love the idea of writing down accomplishments – big and small. It helps us visualize what we did. One of my goals for 2021 is to become more strategic about planning my days – and writing things down is one of them. Have a wonderful day!
So glad you enjoyed these tips, Lisa! We often don’t give ourselves much credit, and writing things down is a great way to acknowledge all that we do in a day:) I love the idea of being more strategic about planning your day. That’s something I need to work on too, thanks for sharing.
These are all such great ideas! All the best sweetheart 😍😍
These are such a great tips. Many of them I practice daily and they really help.
All of these self-care ideas are wonderful! I am a big fan of getting up bright and early and drinking a cup of coffee, and planning my day. Also, I like to really set intentions for not just today, but keep in mind other goals that I want to achieve in the near future, and things like that.
Your two points in the beginning are SO important. It is key that we actually make time for ourselves in our schedules, as well as set those healthy boundaries for our time and sanity.
Make Life Marvelous
I love the ”have regular dates with yourself” because this is my biggest self-care thing. I LOVE having dates with myself, from buying takeaway sushi and eating it all by myself to even going to the cinema alone (when cinemas were open). Such a great post. And i really like the content of your blog!!
Sending you love!